Celebrity Stories
Is Celebrity Infertility Relatable?
Eloise Edington | 13 Dec 2021
At Fertility Help Hub, we understand (in)fertility doesn’t discriminate. Celebrities suffer from fertility struggles just like we do but is it a relatable struggle?
Read on to find out…
Words by Holly Pigache, featured images credit: Shutterstock.com.
Shared Stories
Opening up about difficulties conceiving, maintaining a pregnancy or sharing news of an abortion is admirable and takes a lot of courage, whether you’re in the limelight or not.
Last year, Australian actor Rebel Wilson discussed her experiences of egg freezing after a transformational “Year of Health” (read our account here), singer Rihanna said she isn’t averse to becoming a single mum (here’s our article) and pop star Jessie J shared her miscarriage on social media a few weeks ago (read our blog post here).
Whilst celebrities are in an incredible position to raise awareness and reduce stigma around various causes, are their experiences like the rest of ours?
Resources
In the world of fertility treatment, more money can mean more options to find a path to parenthood. Celebrities have access to a wider pool of fertility clinics, specialist doctors, personal trainers and nutritionists to help them optimise IVF success. Funding fertility treatment is extremely costly and with no guarantee of a pregnancy, assisted-conception’s huge price tag can be crippling for many of us. And it’s not just the treatment or the testing or the medication that tallies up the bill: travelling to and from our clinics, storing eggs, sperm or embryos for a later date costs money, too. For some, taking the time off work is an altogether different story and struggling with infertility in the workplace is something we’re passionate about advocating for at FHH.
As women, we’re regularly advised that fertility preservation is best undertaken sooner rather than later (when there is good ovarian egg reserve) but many young women find that egg collection or donor-conception for freezing embryos is just too costly. When you’re a celebrity raking in millions each year, it’s not quite the same, is it?
Secrecy?
But perhaps there’s another side to this. We’re wondering: does being in the public eye actually mean celebrities are less inclined to open up about their fertility struggles? Might they feel ashamed and wish to keep their fertility journey a secret? Perhaps some celebrities share the joys of pregnancy after years of TTC yet decide not to be honest about the emotional and financial cost of fertility treatment, particularly whilst they’re going through it. Does this secrecy result in false hope for people having difficulty TTC?
Related: Infertility in the Workplace.
The Right to Privacy
People’s personal struggles are exactly that: personal. Like the rest of us, when celebrities open up about their reproductive difficulties, they’re at risk of judgement from others. Perhaps what we need to remember is to praise anyone who feels willing to share their experiences and offer support where we can.
Celebrities are out of reach for lots of us, but by reading stories of celebrities who struggle with fertility and by listening to their experiences, we can be in a better position to support loved ones experiencing similar challenges.
